Be the Friend™ is our family friendly initiative to curtail bullying, alienation, and aggression.

We are on a mission to help children and adults activate the power of kindness and inclusion. Keep reading to find out how to Be the Friend!

 

#bethefriend

What does it mean to

Being the friend most often means reaching out to others who may need support or by possessing a welcoming presence. This is easy when you are self-assured and confident extending yourself to others.  When you are being the friend, it is modeled by your behavior, your body-language, and your speech, as well as your actions and reactions. 

All people deserve to be treated with love, kindness, care, respect and dignity.  So many desire acceptance and have a need for someone to simply BE THE FRIEND! Everyone can participate; there are no limitations or exclusions.  We Are the Cousars’ Be the Friend initiative desires that ALL people become a part of sharing love and kindness and being inclusive regardless of race, ethnicity, or socio-economic status

#bethefriend

“Despite all the things that divide

us; Be the Friend will unite us.”

- THE COUSARS

How can you

*It literally costs nothing to #bethefriend!

KIDS & teens

  1. Be friendly!
  2. Include others in conversations.
  3. Sit with or invite someone who is new or alone to sit with you at the lunch table.
  4. Involve others in play on the playground or common area
  5. Say something nice.
  6. Do something kind.
  7. Encourage someone in their day.
  8. Smile.
  9. Share.
  10. Be humble.

Adults

  1. Be friendly, inclusive and welcoming of others.
  2. Invite someone who normally eats alone to lunch with your lunch group and/or friends.
  3. Involve others in conversations.
  4. Always say please and thank you when making requests.
  5. Be a giver who looks for nothing in return.
  6. Say something nice. 
  7. Do something kind.
  8. Encourage someone in their day. 
  9. Smile and share.
  10. Be humble.

Brave 

Empathetic 

Truthful 

Helpful 

Encouraging 

Fair

Reliable 

Inclusive 

Empowered 

Nice 

Deliberate 

And, use the hashtag to spread kindness!

#bethefriend

Grow with us!

Our family initiatives include:

THIS IS US!

Meet the Cousars

MARRIAGE & FAMILIES

Family Coaching

BOLD LOVE

Couples Speaking & Coaching

BE THE FRIEND

Kindness Culture